Helicopter Parenting or Parenting Parenting?

MELISSA, MULTI-TASKING MAMA — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 02:01:09 +0000

My kids often accuse suggest to me that I am overly strict and involved in their lives. While I would probably have to plead “no contest” to such a charge in court, I think, I hope and I pray that I am doing this whole mama thing right. But am I?

For example: an eleven year old girl in our neighborhood is aggressively pursuing my thirteen year old son (about to be fourteen in a month). Her facebook photo is of her in a bikini (for crying out loud). I have intervened by informing her that her facebook messages to him are inappropriate (because I monitor all his facebook messages). I have intervened by bringing my son inside when she is riding her bike past our house obsessively while he is playing basketball (in our driveway). That (so far) has been the extent of my “psychopathic parenting”–quoting my son on that one. I think he is flattered by the attention.

What I want to do is hunt down the parents of this child and shake ask them if they are asleep on the job or what? Are you aware that your ELEVEN year old daughter is this focused on the opposite sex? It is truly frightening to me.

What I should do is where I falter.

When I intervene as I have am I over reacting?

Are these issues my son needs to handle on his own?

I don’t have all the answers to this parenting teen thing. I pray without ceasing about these boys that God has entrusted to my care.