Yes Mom
February 2, 2010 by MELISSA, MULTI-TASKING MAMA
Filed under memes, parenting
Geometry- check
English 9 honors- check
Spanish II- check
Mama ready to burst into tears at scheduling her son’s classes for HIGH SCHOOL next year- check
Every fiber of my being wants to shout NO to all this growing up stuff. No to girls that are way too forward, no to Facebook, no to later bedtimes, no to…well, I just find myself wanting to say no to anything that resembles my boys growing up.
I was challenged to say yes to my kids this week. Just one day into the challenge and I realize that, for me, saying yes doesn’t have to do with one more bedtime story, making mud pies or candy at the check out line anymore.
Saying yes to my boys at this stage means relinquishing the need to control everything, letting them make some mistakes in the name of independence, and
MOST IMPORTANTLY
deciding to not fight the inevitable but rather make the choice TODAY to
say yes.
Yes to enjoying this awkward (often smelly) stage of life my boys are in
Yes to cherishing the past while taking the time to savor each moment of the present
Yes to watching them grow into the men God designed them to be
Yes to being a mama of growing up boys.
I’m unwrapping my role and embracing it {and trying to ignore the literal searing pain in my chest at the thought of Jared going to high school next year}
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