Contentment and Kids
January 19, 2010 by admin
Filed under being thankful, inspiration, motherhood, parenting
I realized something this weekend. My children do not possess a spirit of contentment.
Maybe it’s the catastrophe in Haiti, maybe it is reading the Bible in 90 days, maybe it is observing how my kids handle disappointment…I don’t know. But, I do know that I am deeply convicted that it needs to change.
To be completely honest, it took a near death experience for me to fully grasp what being content truly means, just as the apostle Paul wrote in Phillipians 4:11-13:
I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through Him who gives me strength.
I want to teach my children the secret spoken of in these passages. That being content should not depend on whether you get to go to the skating rink with your friends or whether you have the latest video game in your hands the second it is released.
I am mad (adolescents can push my angry buttons quite well), I am sad (that they don’t have a deeper understanding of this concept) but most of all I am determined.
I am determined to go back to the way we used to do things in our house…before we got busy.
Oh, friends, if only we could see how busyness is a tool of the enemy.
When my kids were small, we had a gratitude and prayer journal that we wrote in almost daily. We would go back at the end of the year and see how God had provided for us and answered our prayers.
I have a prayer journal but do we continue to do this as a family? No.
Why not? Because between homework, sports and general busyness, that time has not been a priority.
I have told myself it isn’t that big of a deal. My kids are good kids. They go to church, youth group and mission camp.
We can rationalize anything away, can’t we?
My husband and I discussed this (in the car, the only place we get true privacy LOL) and committed before the Lord that our focus would change from this point on.
We only have a few years of direct influence on these boys. I want them to leave our home knowing how to be content, no matter the circumstance. I need to unwrap the secret that I learned, and that the apostle Paul learned, and instill it in my children. Will you pray for me?
P.S After thinking and praying about this all weekend, I came across a post that confirmed we are on the right track. You can read it here.
This post is linked to Tuesdays Unwrapped.


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